thanks for the alternative approach to daddy's participating in the feeding process myinnerlizard. i have been tossing ideas around in my head as to a better way to incoporate my husband into the entire routine. i get the feeling at times that he feels left out especially when he starts making his "boobie" comments, even though he has his own bonding time with the little one. although she is still too young to play any games. i know my husband would get a kick out of it. not to mention that it might break down the newfound mystique revolving around the lactating boob rather than the pleasure pillows that he loved so much before all the feeling began.